I was browsing a couple of bridal registry sites, and I realized that the things I want, wish for, and need are not anywhere to be found. So I'm making my own. Feel free to suggest items.

I've divided my list into several categories:
1) Things I wish for
2) Things that are fun but useful
3) Things that are useful
4) Things that are just plain fun

5) Stuff I don't want- because I've either already got it, or would be tempted to take it shooting.

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Presents versus Presence

In times of economic uncertainty and the tightening of the belts, going to a lot of birthday parties, bridal showers, baby showers, etc... can really strain the budget. Just to make things simple though- I'll make it clear here, once and for all.

For each occasion (ie, wedding, birthday, Christmas, etc.), even if there are numerous parties, I don't need a present each time. Because if I invite you to more than one party, it's because I like your 'presence' not your 'presents.' Presents are nice, but knowing I have a good friend that I can talk to is even better.

So please, when you feel obligated to, but don't have the money; remember what is really important in life: the friends we make and the times we share.

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